Postpartum Depression: Separating Myths from Facts




 

Becoming a mother is one of life’s most profound experiences, but for many women, the postpartum period can also bring unexpected emotional challenges. Postpartum depression (PPD) is a real and serious mental health condition that affects a significant number of new mothers worldwide  including in Nigeria, yet it is often misunderstood, under-recognized, and stigmatized.

What Is Postpartum Depression?

Postpartum depression is more than the “baby blues.” While many new mothers experience mild emotional fluctuations in the first two weeks after childbirth, PPD is longer-lasting and much more severe, involving persistent sadness, anxiety, fatigue, and loss of interest that can interfere with daily functioning and maternal wellbeing.

Globally, estimates suggest that around 10–15% of women experience PPD, with higher rates reported in developing countries. Studies in Nigeria have shown prevalence rates ranging from about 20–35% or more, depending on location and methodology, indicating that this is not a rare condition but a common one that needs attention. (journalarjgo.com)

Myth : “Postpartum depression is rare , almost unheard of.”

Fact:
PPD is not rare. Research across different regions of Nigeria shows that a substantial proportion of postnatal women exhibit significant depressive symptoms after childbirth, far higher than what would be expected by chance. A study in Gombe found that around 23.5% of postnatal mothers screened positive for depressive symptoms. (journalarjgo.com)

Another study in Lagos reported a 35.6% prevalence, with psychosocial and obstetric predictors including lack of support, unsupportive partners, and stressful birth experiences. (PubMed)

These figures align with broader research indicating that PPD is a global public-health concern, particularly in low-resource settings. (PubMed)

Myth : “Postpartum depression is caused by evil spirits, ancestral curses, or demonic forces.”

Fact:
There is no scientific evidence that PPD is caused by demonic possession, curses, or spiritual attacks. Unfortunately, cultural beliefs and misconceptions can lead some people to interpret emotional suffering in spiritual terms rather than biological or psychological ones.

Studies in Nigeria have found that many nursing mothers attribute depressive symptoms to supernatural causes, including witchcraft, evil machinations of family members, or demonic forces views rooted in cultural interpretations of unexplained suffering. (jpc.aprocon.org.ng)

However, medical research shows that postpartum depression is influenced by a combination of biological, psychological, and social factors, including hormonal changes after birth, past mental health history, stress, and lack of support. (MDPI)

Myth : “Our ancestors didn’t experience this  so it must be a modern thing.”

Fact:
Emotional and psychological responses to major life events  including childbirth  have always been part of human experience. What has changed is our ability to identify, describe, and diagnose these conditions using modern medical knowledge.

Cultural interpretations vary widely across the world, and explanations based on ancestral experience often reflect the absence of scientific vocabulary, not the absence of the condition itself. Many societies historically interpreted mental distress through spiritual frameworks because they lacked formal mental-health systems  not because the symptoms weren’t real. Research on cultural factors shows that beliefs and rituals around childbirth can influence how PPD is expressed or interpreted, but they do not eliminate the biological and psychological processes underlying it. (PubMed)

Myth : “Postpartum depression only happens after Caesarean section (C-section).”

Fact:
Caesarean delivery can be associated with emotional stress, but it is not a direct cause of postpartum depression on its own. PPD is a complex interplay of many risk factors, and while difficult birth experiences including surgical delivery can contribute to emotional distress, the condition occurs after vaginal births as well. (journalarjgo.com)

Research suggests that stress, lack of support, past depression, and inadequate social resources are stronger predictors of PPD than mode of delivery alone. (PubMed)

Myth : “It’s just normal baby blues.”

Reality:
Many people confuse PPD with the “baby blues,” a mild mood disturbance that affects up to 80% of new mothers and usually resolves within 1–2 weeks. Postpartum depression is much more severe and longer-lasting, often requiring professional support. It can include deep sadness, loss of interest in daily activities, anxiety, trouble sleeping, or feelings of worthlessness  and these symptoms do not simply go away on their own

Myth : “Only weak and lazy women get postpartum depression.”

Reality:
PPD is not a sign of weakness or a personal failure. Clinical evidence shows that it is a mental health condition influenced by biological, psychological, and social factors  including hormonal changes, stress, lack of support, and past history of depression. 

In Nigeria, limited mental health literacy means many women are wrongly told they are weak, lazy, spiritually afflicted, or simply not coping well enough, which deepens stigma and delays treatment. 

Myth 3: “Postpartum depression only happens right after birth.”

Reality:
While symptoms often appear in the first few weeks, PPD can develop any time in the first year after childbirth. This means that a mother struggling months later might still be experiencing true PPD and not “just being tired.” 

Myth : “Breastfeeding prevents postpartum depression.”

Reality:
Breastfeeding has many benefits, but it does not guarantee protection against PPD. In fact, breastfeeding challenges (like pain or difficulty latching) can increase stress and contribute to mood disorders

Myth : “You don’t need help, you’ll get over it naturally.”

Reality:
PPD doesn’t simply resolve without support. Without assessment and treatment, symptoms can worsen and affect the mother’s wellbeing, her ability to bond with her baby, and even long-term family health. Thankfully, PPD is treatablethrough counselling, support groups, and, in some cases, medication. Many of which are safe when guided by a healthcare professional. 



Why Misconceptions Matter

Misunderstandings about PPD  such as thinking it is rare, spiritual, or a sign of weakness can prevent women from seeking help. In some Nigerian communities, poor mental health literacy leads to labeling PPD symptoms as “normal moodiness” or attributing them to supernatural causes, which contributes to stigma and silence. (PMC)

This not only prolongs suffering but also increases health risks for mothers and infants, since untreated depression can affect bonding, child development, and family wellbeing.

What Real Science Says

✔ Biological factors like hormonal fluctuations and neurochemical changes after childbirth contribute to PPD risk. (MDPI)
✔ Psychological stressors — like traumatic birth, fatigue, and prior mental health issues — play a significant role. (Springer Nature Link)
✔ Social support is one of the strongest protective factors; women with strong family and partner support tend to have lower risk. (PubMed)

In short: PPD is multifactorial, not caused by curses or external spiritual forces.

Moving Forward: Awareness + Support

Supporting a woman through postpartum depression is not the responsibility of the mother alone. Recovery is strongest when family, partners, and society play active, informed roles. Here is what meaningful support looks like:

What Relatives Can Do

Relatives especially mothers, sisters, and in-laws are often the closest support system during the postpartum period. Their role is crucial.

  • Listen without judgment. Avoid dismissive phrases like “you’ll be fine,” “it’s normal,” or “others went through worse.” Emotional pain deserves validation.

  • Offer practical help. Simple acts like cooking, helping with household chores, or caring for the baby for a few hours can significantly reduce stress.

  • Encourage professional help. Support medical consultations and mental-health care rather than attributing symptoms to spiritual or moral causes.

  • Create a safe space. Let the mother know she can speak freely without fear of being labeled weak, ungrateful, or dramatic.

What Husbands and Partners Can Do

Partners play one of the most influential roles in a mother’s recovery from postpartum depression.

  • Be present, not just available. Emotional presence checking in, listening, and reassuring  matters as much as physical presence.

  • Share responsibilities. Helping with night feeds, childcare, and home tasks reduces exhaustion, a major trigger for worsening symptoms.

  • Learn about postpartum depression. Understanding that PPD is a medical condition  not a character flaw helps partners respond with empathy rather than frustration.

  • Advocate for care. Accompany your partner to medical appointments and support treatment decisions without stigma or shame.

A supportive partner can significantly reduce the severity and duration of postpartum depression.

What Society Must Do

Postpartum depression is not just a family issue, it is a public-health issue.

  • Normalize conversations about maternal mental health. Public discussions, health campaigns, and media representation should reflect the realities of postpartum mental health.

  • Integrate screening into maternal care. Routine mental-health screening during antenatal and postnatal visits should be standard practice.

  • Challenge harmful myths. Community leaders, religious institutions, and health professionals must actively dispel beliefs that link PPD to spiritual failure or moral weakness.

  • Improve access to mental-health services. Affordable, culturally sensitive mental-health care must be accessible at the primary healthcare level.

A Shared Responsibility

Postpartum depression thrives in silence and stigma  but it improves with understanding, support, and timely care. When families listen, partners show up, and society responds with compassion instead of judgment, mothers are no longer forced to suffer alone.

Supporting maternal mental health is not a luxury.
It is a responsibility we all share.


WRITTEN BY
ABIGAIL JEREMIAH

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